God is patient with us. Can we be patient with God?

Patience (Long-suffering)

the Holy Spirit Long-Suffering (Patience)

Be patient. God isn't through with me yet.

What Is Patience?

Patience :

  1. definition: the quality or capacity of being patient; to endure something with calmness; the ability to willingly accept or tolerate delay or hardship.
  2. English word origin: Latin patiens, < Latin pati (to endure, suffer)
  3. The same Latin root word led to the word 'passion', which is still used in its original sense of 'suffer' when describing the last week of Christ's life.
  4. Synonyms for patience: long-suffering, forbearance, perseverance, to put up with.
  5. Greek term in : makrothumia (long-suffering) [makro- (long, distant in time or space, large-view) + thumos (passion, rage, the emotions of suffering)], with a usual meaning of having an enduringly-calm temperament.

Long-suffering in the Bible :

Christ's "limitless" patience is toward even the worst of us.

In Colossians 1:9-12, Paul and his colleagues pray that the Colossians may be filled with the knowledge of God's will, which will bear fruit and the Colossians may attain patience.

In 2 Timothy 4:2, those who preach and/or teach are given charge to do so with "total patience".

God's own characteristic forbearance is shown in, among other places, Exodus 34:6.

Wait upon the Lord.

Long-Suffering (Patience)

Long-suffering or patience. It's not my favorite spiritual fruit. As someone who growls when the car in front of me doesn't move when the light turns green, I can't say I'm a patient man. I'm a New Yorker, you understand, and I'm raised to demand instant action. I live in a fast-paced world which is getting faster even as age slows me down. Life's too short. I do not want to sit still for other people's troubles. My first instinct is to move on and let them stew in it. Me, suffer over someone else? Bah! When I see someone a lot of time in devotions and prayer, sometimes my first thought is that they're escapists running away from the world. Don't they know they're running out of time?? There's too much to do, and to hell with anyone who gets in the way.

In that way, I am a man of my era. Today's human being is unwilling to put up with or wait for what doesn't conform to what it wants. That means getting rid of the spouse if things aren't working out just right, or making short-term investments to make quick bucks. Or, dumping chemicals in a nearby stream (or a nearby slum) to get rid of it fast. Or, being unwilling to wait until the end of the commercials to keep watching a TV show. Long-suffering? Why? He/she can't afford to be patient, according to this outlook. Those who bear emotional burdens over those they love seem like fools who should let go of anyone who is any kind of trouble, or so it's said. However, the Spirit, who can be faster than any of us, is not in it for the quick hit. The Spirit practices patience, and counsels patience. You have all of eternity, and all that is not joy today will pass away someday.

Also, love demands patience. A quickie affair is simply not as deep and powerful as a relationship that builds over time. It takes time to go through the repeated confidence-building moments that bind two "me-s" together. God's love takes that kind of time, too. Spiritual practices and the disciplines of devotion and study have benefits that can't be rushed. Doing them will grow your ability to be patient.

Patience is also a key part of prayer. We, who demand instant responses, have to deal with the truth that any answer will come on God's schedule not yours. (Hey, it's not your universe.) In Psalm 40:1, it says "I waited patiently for the Lord." But it feels so long sometimes. How long to sing this song? As long as it takes! The Psalms say it over and over and over again: wait for the LORD. Be still. Or to put it as James did, wait patiently in the way that the farmer waits for the coming crop.

Remember -- God is persistently working for the better, and God wins in the end. You can trust in that.

Wait upon the Lord.

A prayer, overheard :
"God, give me patience --- RIGHT NOW!!!"

Keep waiting...

When some situation (or some jerk) tries your patience, have a laugh over it. It will seem less burdensome. God has a great sense of timing, so it helps to be in tune with it. Spiritual practices can help you develop that timing. It's like you're exercising your patience muscles, you're adjusting your inner antenna. This in turn instills you with contentment and a more balanced way of looking at the matter. You won't want mere relief of your anxiety or instant results. You'll want the matter resolved in as positive a way as is possible. Patience comes easier when you think about God's timing rather than your own. It also comes easier knowing that your trials are the main way you develop patience.

There are hobbies that help build patience. Two of the most common of these are gardening and fishing. In each, the results do not come quickly, nor on demand. You have to tend to it patiently, baiting the hook each time you put it in the water, or planting and watering the seeds. And, you have to wait for a process you can't control.
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Patience is hard when you suffer long due to jerks.